Got reminded by Ernz bout this.. Aint it great to have your first love as ur husband or wife in future? Wow.. Imagine this scene.. Kinda hard for this present times now.. With all e fen fen li li de.. Couples come n go.. Come tgt den fall apart den leave each other.. Even married couples are experiencing higher rates of divorce... But still, there are still some rare cases.. Vaguely remembering, but Yes.. Am positive that there are realli cases like these.. My aunt's one good example..

I'm sure most of us still rmb how it was like to experience e first time falling in love.. Suddenly feeling all warm n fuzzy all over juz at the thought of her/him, getting all so excited seeing him/her walk towards you.. holding your hands.. showering you with love n care... First time's always e most memoriable time.. Then suddenly, everything starting turning bad.. quarrels over nothings, getting irritated by e other's ignorance, not answering phone calls, avoiding contact with each other... Aint it all so memoriable? The first time we fall in love.. The first time we fall out of love.. N from all this what lessons do we get?? Lessons that prevent us from falling due to the same mistake again.. What doesn't break us makes us.. What's most important is that we all HAVE to learn..

Life doesn't have any 50 First Dates.. Cant get to rewind e clock to day 1, so juz make full use of everyday to get to learn more about each other, which one should have already done so before even getting tgt.. At times when u're angry or unhappy wid e other, always stop, think.. Analyze.. Think where's e problem coming from.. N solve e problem without being blunt with your words..

Love is not about e sacrifices you did,
Love is not about loving what they can do for you.
Love is not about the romantic environment you purposely made to make him happy,
Love is not about the LV bag you got her for her birthday.
Love is not about saying the words "I Love You",
Love is not about saying the good stuffs.
Love is not about what you'll get for her on Valentines or her Birthday,
Love is not about spending time with her when your mind's on something else.
Love is not about running towards the sunset together,
Love is not about e world revolving around the both of you.
Love is not about singing his praises only,
Love is not about doing what he wants you to do.

Love is about doing all you can to make him smile,
Love is about him lending you his shoulder at all times.
Love is about encouraging him as he runs through the last 400m of his 42.12km marathon,
Love is about wearing the Winnie-the-Pooh outfit, which she loves so much, n walking down Orchard Road with her.
Love is about weathering all storms with her,
Love is about forgiving him when he apologises and you never bring it up again.
Love is about the truth, and nothing but the truth,
Love is about understanding the situations she's going through.
Love is about giving good advice, and accepting them,
Love is about the occasional morale boosting calls when she's mugging till 4am.
Love is about what you can give,
Love is about taking time off your activities to help solve her problems when she needs help.

Love is not just this..
Love is so much more..
Are you really loving??


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